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Dear Future Me... Day 1

Dear Future Me,


Today was hard. The trail of wetness is still on my face as a reminder of the decision we had to make. Ending relationships are never easy. You pour so much into them. And well. I know you... so I know you gave 100 percent. You expected the same loyalty that you give.


Unfortunately, bad habits are built from the environments that you put yourself in. "You are who you hang around." Let's not forget, "Birds of a feather." Phrases that are always heard, but you never want to admit to their truths.


So again, today was hard. I had to cut ties with someone that I've known my whole life. We cry together. We laugh together. Most importantly, when we do something dumb. We hold each other accountable.


Except lately. I'm looking at her not recognizing how she looks or the words that she speaks. She kept making excuses on why things needed to stay the same. Why change was going to do more worse than good. That's when I made the executive decision.


I promise that change is the necessary step for growth. Don't be scared to cut ties. Build new relationships. To start over. Even if that person is you...


I told you; it was a hard day. I let go of the girl I knew to become the woman I want to be. Transformation started with you. Knowing that you are more than enough. You realized that and that is the first step. We know the journey won't be easy. I promise you'll make mistakes along the way. I also promise to help you learn from those same ones.


Today was a hard day. But know that we've got this, together.


Love,

A Healing Me



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tonya lanier
tonya lanier
29 avr. 2023

Healing means cutting off the toxic relationships, becoming closer with god, and starting a new relationship with the ”better” you. There will be hard days when you want to cry and give up, go back to your old ways & pick up old habits. I know you can be great and do great things , with all the love behind you to push your self further.

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bcapri.contents
29 avr. 2023

God is working….It’s God that changes time and seasons. He allows it for us to grow and become more of him. He gives wisdom and understanding in this new season.…Everyone has their growing moment and everyone can’t come with you. Not because you no longer love them but because you’ve realized the growth in you!!! But remember everyone doesn’t grow in the same moment/ time as you; so be careful not speak ill on others who just doesn’t get it YET! God is still working on them. This was absolutely beautiful, keep going! ❤️

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KaC Lanier
KaC Lanier
29 avr. 2023
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Beautifully written. The growth in this piece is in self. Growing from an old version of yourself.

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Juliaette Thomas
Juliaette Thomas
28 avr. 2023

Healing and self love is everything you need to push forward. You can do ALL things through Christ, Who strengthens you.


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prettyniy
prettyniy
28 avr. 2023

gave me the chills. you said everything everyone wishes they could say. the journey to peace is tough, but its worth it. excited to see where your path leads you

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